Dedra is a rather interesting spirit. You see she is very accurate with her timelines regarding the future. I say interesting because she responds with the sand. If she sees a lot of blockages her sand will stop. Smooth sailing it will flow. Dedra was divorced with one child but remarried quickly after her divorce was final. Everyone told her to not jump into this marriage but being blindly in love she didn't care. Dedra tells me she noticed her child began to fear this man but wouldn't every tell her mom. She ignored all the signs and very mad at herself as a mother for this. One day she noticed bruises and that was the end of the marriage. As time went in she lived a comfortable life with her child. Things were good and she swore off love. Someone thought set her home to fire intentionally, she still doesn't know who