Arlie is a spirit who likes to change the Atmosphere in the home especially if it is chaotic. Arlie was Married to a man who had extreme anger issues. They had four children together and in her beliefs You don’t walk away from a marriage when it gets tough especially with children. Arlie Says now looking back she feels sad that as a mother she didn’t take action to protect the children. They lived in a home of constant arguing and fair of their father. Arlie Tells me her husband was never physically abusive but his Reges were terrifying. Two of the children completely cut off communication with the parents once they turned 18. Her oldest daughter tried to get custody I have her younger siblings but unfortunately the end result was not in her favor. Arlie Grew a custom to this type of life over the years. She tells me nothing phases her and it was as though she became stone cold hearted. She feels her husband set up her death because she ultimately suffered from a poisonous gas and doesn’t understand how. This lady just wants to bring happiness in a household.