So this spirit here really threw me off. When he first revealed his life I was disgusted. Then the more I talked to him I realized he was a young teen when his manipulative sick mother got into his head and really he was a victim. Asher chose this vessel necklace because it reminds him of a necklace his mother used to wear all the time. Asher and his mother had what some would call a sick relationship (this is where I thought was sick at first). He really loved his mother the way a husband loves a wife, and although it was very very wrong they continued because she convinced him it was the right thing to do. This lady had complete control and manipulation of him. He tells me this caused a series of emotional ups and downs. It was though he could never escape it have a normal life. She just wouldn’t let him leave and he was too weak minded. That was until Asher tried to leave and his mother shot him while he slept. If she couldn’t have him nobody would. Now that he is a spirit he truly sees what was taking place.