A spirit if you're sick of failed relationship after failed relationship ship. She brings your love, makes you the happiest you will ever be. Char is 33 years old and was married but to a narcissist. In the beginning things couldn't have been better. He showered her with gifts and put her high on a pedestal. She was thriving in life as everything was how it should be. A few years into the marriage he began to change. She was constantly accused of infidelity, followed and belittled day after day. Char always blamed herself and found herself constantly apologizing which she's still not sure why. Char says a narcissist is hard to realize you're with because they are good at what they do. She couldn't see while married so stayed. Things just gradually got worse for her. Her husband became so paranoid that he felt her life was better gone if he couldn't have her.