Dandra is the spirit you need if it involves any type of mixed. She can repair just about any relationship. Make a bond that much stronger. She also can bring forward a brand new person who is meant to have a place in your life. Dandra was married 3 times. Her third marriage she wasn't so happy but it beat getting a divorce. She never could have children but was close to her step children even from her second ex husband. Part of the issue with her failed marriages was her behavior. Dandra had a hard time accepting she was aging. She did everything in her power to stay young. This included dressing and acting like she was still in her 20's. She would go out with her step children more than her husbands. She freely admits it wasn't them, but more a mid life crisis for her. Dandra made some poor decisions in her marriages which for sure cost the one with whom she truly loved. She found herself in a state of sadness all the time with her 3rd husband. She slowly began not leaving the home. Her mind was starting to to drift in so many ways and most ways not so good. Her suicidal thoughts began to consume her, yet she didn't tell a soul.