This spirit is May be small but never judge size by power. She is not a witch but sure resembles one! This spirit is very slick as she is able to get your way often! Her name is Pamela but likes to be called Pam. Pam tells me she had a very BORING life. She was married to her husband for 20 years and they had 2 children. Pam stayed home with them and once they went off to college she began writing novels. She had hoped one day her novels would be published but they never were. Her husband was very much a bore who was a homebody. He worked, ate and went to bed his whole life. She went through a phase of trying to spice it up with no luck. She want to love Dr's hoping that would help but nothing. Pam then went through a phase were she acted unmarried. She would go out meeting people just for socialization. One man in particular paid her extra attention and she couldn't get enough. These meet ups continued for months until she realized he had a violent past history. When she tried to leave him things did not go her way.