Nainka will grant you some of the deepest desires you have. This is a spirit you may write down what you want and drop in her vessel. Nainka was in her early 40's at the time of her death. She was married but never had children. Her marriage was arranged and she tells me eventually you do indeed fall in love although it's different than letting it happen natural. Her husband was allowed to do as he pleased as he was the provider. Even though she didn't work or have children her life was still fulfilling. When it came to materialistic things she had it all. When it came to decisions she was to ask permission and again never question any of his actions. He was a good man she tells me but there were things he made bad choices. Nainka paid the price for some of those bad choices that again she has no right to know. She now is just still a people pleaser,