When you bring Lola with you all nervousness and anxiety disappear. This is a spirit very in tune with your feelings! Lola was a young women who had her first child at age 16. Her parents made her marry the man which turned out to be a miserable life. She constantly is telling me about the verbal abuse which took away all her confidence as a human. She focused on raising her son and sheltering him from his father. Lola had most of her life controlled so at work she let loose. She enjoyed the human interaction, the freeness. She did though make the mistake of having a marital affair of which her husband found out. This sent him over the edge with Lola.