Lola is the perfect spirit if you’re struggling in the love department. She actually contributes this to lack of confidence in yourself but she completely understands hence why she’s there to help. She actually helped with a rough patch my husband and I were going through at one point. Lola was a beautiful girl but her her husband always had his eyes in others which left her feeling not so beautiful. She tells me after the children she put on much weight and was embarrassed to even buy clothes. Her husband would often nag her for how she looked which didn’t help her self esteem one bit. She stayed in a one way marriage as she was in love and he wasn’t so much by the sounds of it. Lola stayed like this for the children and of course now she regrets it. She tells me there were so many things she did to make quick money so she could “fix” her looks but never got to that point. Lola came down with an illness that the Dr’s could not figure out what it was. She passed away from this and she’s actually happier now than before.