Pat loves to help us calm down when we are super duper stressed. I personally have used her several different times. Pat married the love of her life right out of high school. They immediately started a family before he went off to WWII. She was left to raise 6 children on her own. Pat say she was indeed stressed to the maximum but truly enjoyed being able to stay home with the children. She was always sad her husband was missing out on great milestones but she had to be strong for the family. No matter how difficult things got she would never dear complain about motherhood. She watched several of the children friends come through the door that were often abused or malnourished so was blessed. When Pat got the news her husband was not coming. home things changes. She became angry at the world and more so at the children. She had to end up giving her sister custody because she no longer wanted to be here.