Ilene is a good spirit for showing you what it is seemed when it comes to the future. You may communicate with her in a telepathic form or ask she come in dreams. Remember when you are seeking the future be prepared for the answers. Ilene had a simple yet complex life. She was married for many many years and they had 4 children. She never worked a day in her life as he did well. However, Ilene had to accept the fact he was able to do what he wanted and when he wanted. In public they were to be a well cherished happy family. Behind closed doors she didn't know that man. Even the children became accustom to this lifestyle which Illene knew was not normal. When one of the children started act out about the family dynamic her husband demanded she put him in place. When she was unable he feared the family would be exposed and made sure Ilene was out of the picture.
There's things Lena is trying to get through to you and for a reason. Lena is one who brings fourth communication from the other side. This can be anyone trying to reach you. Lena has never reveled her age. Another thing I noticed is the ways she speaks is different, perhaps much earlier times. She was a widow and single mother to 7 children. They had a hard life trying to survive. The children were always fed and taken care of first and Lena suffered often. Her living situation is another thing she doesn't really discuss. She just tells me it's not like how I have it. She was never allowed to remarry and even if she could, there was no time. Lena had to do all the labor work on top of raising the children. Eventually this caught up with her body and she had no access to a Dr.