Bailey is the spirit to take away all your trouble and worries. You don't even have to tell her because it's as though she lives your thoughts and feelings. Bailey was 39 and married to a very abusive man. He was an alcoholic but they had been together since 17 and he 3 children together. Bailey was always making excuses for hi to the children as to why he was never in attendance or the fights that would turn physical. Bailey says she wish she could take it back but we are blind being in the moment. She never let family or friends know. He was usually absent anyways drinking the night away or with some other female. Bailey says it was mentally draining but eventually she couldn't let it consume her life. The older the children became the harder it was to shelter them from the truth. Her 2 eldest children left home at 18 and 17 disowning their parents. The guilt and loneliness she was unable to handle. She put all the blame on herself and this consumed her. Bailey doesn't say the exact cause of her death.