Xao is a spirit where people can't cross her owner as she's very vengeful. Xao will go after others on her own and you don't even need to tell her. The only time she needs to be told is if another person needs immediate revenge. Xao was married but just for show. Her husband was actually a successful business man and others couldn't dear know he was a homosexual. They did have children together and they were well, well taken care of. Xao got everything she asked for with never a question asked. She took full advantage of this since she had no companionship. Her life was very privileged but she never turned her nose up to others. Xao never made an enemy so her murder was a shock. Turns out her husbands lover wanted him all to himself.